Dear followers:
I receive a lot of messages from people around the world through this page with questions about sex, which is great. I love that you all are curious and enthusiastic regarding sexual health, pleasure and relationships.
I really regret I don't have time to answer them for you, they are too many and I can't afford to work for free - answering them would take almost my entire work day, every day. :(
I also regret there are so few good and available sources of kn ... owledge about sex for many of you, but here are a few things that are crucial to know about sex, that I get a lot of questions about from international followers:

- There is no hymen. It doesn't exist. There is no way of telling, even for a doctor, of a woman has had intercourse or not. Most women does not bleed during first intercourse. This is scientifically proven, although the notion of "virginity" is culturally strong, there is no such physical thing.

- It's perfectly normal to ejaculate quite quickly, or to sometimes have problems with keeping an erection. Real life sex is not like what you see in porn movies, not even close, so don't feel bad if you don't "perform" they way the actors do. If your problems becomes regular, talk to your doctor.

- Women are just as sexual as men, but our pleasure follows other patterns than mens. Don't use male pleasure to measure a womans. If you wonder why your girlfriend/wife doesn't like sex, ask her if you are doing it right, and if she feels safe and respected in your relationship. And make sure she's comfortable enough to tell you the truth. items that suitable for sixteen girls that looks sweety

- Masturbation is good and healthy for both sexes. Keep up doing it, there are no health risks, and nothing shameful about it. As long as you do it privately (as in not in front of people who hasn't asked to see it) and it doesn't inpact on your everyday life, just keep it up and enjoy.

For general questions about sex, you can visit RFSU :s question box in English with this link: http://www.rfsu.se/en/Engelska/Sex-and-Relations/Sex-FAQ/